We all come to Earth to improve and learn to love. And each of us has to go through important life periods - the so-called seven-year cycles , during which we must gain certain experience and move to a higher level of spiritual and spiritual development.
Seven-year cycles of human life
0 to 7 years old
Strong bond with mother. Horizontal knowledge of the world. Creating feelings. Mother's smell , mother's milk , mother's voice , mother's warmth , mother's kisses are the first sensations. The period usually ends with the hatching out of the protective cocoon of maternal love and the discovery of the more or less cold rest of the world.
7 to 14 years old
Strong bond with father. Vertical knowledge of the world. Creation of personality. The father becomes a new exclusive partner , an ally in discovering the world outside the family cocoon. The father expands the protective family cocoon. The father becomes the guide. Mother was loved , father should be adored.
14 to 21 years old
Rebellion against society. Knowledge of matter. Creation of intelligence. This is a crisis of adolescence. There is a desire to change the world and destroy existing structures. The youth attacks the family cocoon , then society as a whole. A teenager is seduced by everything that "revolts" - loud music , romantic relationships , the desire for independence , flight , connection with marginalized youth groups , anarchist values , the systematic rejection of old values. The period ends with the exit from the family cocoon.
21 to 28 years old
Entry into society. Stabilization after the riot. Having failed with the destruction of the world , they are integrated into it , wanting first to be better than the previous generation. Looking for a more interesting job than the parents. Looking for a more interesting place to live than your parents. An attempt to create a happier couple than the parents. Choosing a partner and creating a hearth. Create your own cocoon. The period usually ends with marriage.
From that moment on, man fulfilled his mission and finished with the first protective cocoon.
END OF THE FIRST SQUARE 4×7 YEARS.
After the first square , culminating in the creation of one's own cocoon , one enters the second series of seven-year cycles.
28-35 years old
Creating a hearth. After marriage , apartments , cars, children appear. Values are accumulated inside the cocoon. But if the first four cycles were not completed successfully , the hearth collapses. If the relationship with her mother was not lived properly , she will annoy her daughter-in-law. If with the father too , he will begin to interfere in the affairs of the young couple. If the rebellion against society has not been experienced , there is a risk of conflicts at work. 35 years old is the age which a poorly matured cocoon often explodes. , dismissal , depression , psychosomatic illnesses occur Then the first coco must be discarded and...
35-42 years old
Everything starts from scratch. After the crisis, the person , enriched by previous experience and mistakes , reconstructs the second cocoon. It is necessary to reconsider the relationship to mother , family , father , maturity. This is the period when divorced men have mistresses , and divorced women have lovers. They are trying to perceive what they expect , no longer from marriage , but from the opposite sex.
Relationships with society also need to be reviewed. From now on, work is chosen not from the point of view of its safety , but by how interesting it is , or by the free time that it leaves.
After the destruction of the first cocoon, a person always feels the desire to create a second one as soon as possible.
New marriage , new job , new relationship. If getting rid of the parasitic elements went well , the person should be able to restore not a similar , but an improved cocoon. If he does not understand past mistakes , he will restore exactly the same shell and come to exactly the same defeats. This is what is called "running in circles". From now on, all cycles will be just a repetition of the same mistakes.
42-49 years old
The conquest of society. As soon as the second , improved cocoon is restored , a person can experience the fullness of life in marriage , family , work , and personal development. This victory leads to two new behaviors.
If signs of material well-being are important to a person: more money , more comfort , more children , more mistresses or lovers , more power , he constantly increases and enriches his new improved cocoon.
If a person goes to conquer new territories , namely spiritual ones , then the true creation of his personality begins. By all logic , this period should end with a crisis of self-consciousness , an existential question. Why am I here , why am I living , what should I do in order for life to acquire meaning apart from material wealth?
49-56 years old
spiritual revolution. create or recreate his cocoon and realize himself in the family and work , he naturally feels a desire to gain wisdom. From now on, the last adventure begins , the spiritual revolution.
The quest for spirituality , if conducted honestly , without falling into the easiness of cliques or ready-made ideas , will never be over. They will take the rest of your life.
END OF THE SECOND SQUARE 4×7 YEARS.
NB 1: Further development continues in a spiral. Every seven years, a person rises one turn and again goes through the same questions: relationships with mother and father , attitudes towards rebellion against society and the family.
NB 2: Sometimes some people deliberately fail in family relationships or at work in order to be forced to start all the cycles again. In this way, they try to avoid or delay the moment when they have to move into the spiritual phase , as they are afraid to face themselves.published econet.ru
From the book "Empire of Angels" by Bernard Werber
